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Friday, December 28, 2012

Christmas with Famiy




Zak and I began our Christmas journey after I took my accrued PTO, and we drove to the Porters. It's so relaxing there, just talking, watching movies, and playing games. Our schedules didn't quite align with one of the siblings and spouse, so we made a plan to visit before they moved on to the next location. Niki took me out for some last-week shopping, and we grabbed everything we needed.

 






Our next stop was on my Dad's side for the Hooper Family Christmas Party. I got to meet the newest addition to the family, and listen to some great performances by my very talented cousins.


















We drove to my parents house to stay for a couple nights, and in the meantime got to visit Zak's brother and sister-in-law in their new place with splendid decorations. The snow began to fall, with perfect timing for a white Christmas.




















On Christmas Eve we gathered with my parents and siblings to watch The Muppet Christmas Carol and to reenact the Christmas story, singing hymns along the way. This year I was Joseph and Zak was a sheep. Apparently he's been practicing his baaing for the role for quite some time. After our little program, we continued singing our favorite Christmas songs.
Sheep and Shepherds
Angel talking to shepherds
Angel appearing to Mary



Narrator and Mary






Our Wise Men presenting gifts






Waiting for everyone to wake up while playing battleship
 We played killer bunnies, phase 10, and other games while my parents went to the 11:00 P.M. organ concert. As Zak and I don't have any kids, we're still in the role of kids on Christmas morning. We got to bed around 1:00 A.M., with the agreement that siblings would awaken us to sort and organize the presents around 5:00 or later. Mom and Dad don't arise until 7:00 A.M., so I stuck Mom's prepared breakfast meal in the oven and then went to sleep until it was time. We take turns opening presents one-at-a-time, starting with the youngest and circling around our family of ten throughout the morning. We are so spoiled.


The tower


Some relatives from Mom's side of the family made a joyous appearance Christmas morning, along with sister missionaries who got to Skype for the bi-annual phone call home. We got many wonderful presents, but by far the best part for me was getting to see all of our siblings and parents, and some of our extended family to boot. What a wonderful Christmas.





By afternoon, the brothers were ready for a nap.

Christmas List

Swiss Cowbell and Vancouver Keychain

 I love Christmas traditions. A few years ago at my parents house I wrote a whole bunch of stories, movies, and activities on a December calendar. I've lightened up about some of it, and now make a calendar as a general guide, to help us remember some of the activities we like to do throughout the month to bring the feeling of Christmas. Included are movies such as "White Christmas," "Nora's Christmas Gift," "It's a Wonderful Life," "Mr. Krueger's Christmas," and Zak's favorite, "The Muppet Christmas Carol." I love to read stories, and this year made a recording of The Gift of the Magi, and then read Christmas Jars, which Mom Porter gave me last year. I baked several gingerbread houses using the family cast iron mold, but Zak and I were a little tired by the time it came to making our own. I have several nativity sets, and put them around the house. Husband discovered a love of burning scented candles (carefully), and we put up our little tree with ornaments collected from our travels and lives. To add a personal touch to some gifts to co-workers and others, I crocheted snowflake ornaments, which I then ironed and painted with glitter paint. They have a lot of room for improvement, but I enjoy the process and seeing the final outcome. I do love this time of year. May you spend time with family, and have a Merry Christmas and Happy 2013!
Moveable wooden man from Liechtenstein
Mickey Mouse hat from Sister's travels to
Disney World, Bear family given by a
wonderful family I met on my mission
Wooden Stars made by Dad Porter





Bunny in our backyard!

Before iron and paint




Gingerbread with the YW

This year as a Young Women group, we gathered at one of the amazing leaders' houses, and built gingerbread houses from what the sister had prepared. They turned out to be adorable A-frame houses with doors, all different. Admittedly, I used up about 70% of the smarties as roof tiles. Some of the girls' philosophy that only delicious candies they would want to eat would make it onto the gingerbread houses  brought inspiration. Thanks for the houses and fun, ladies!








Tuesday, December 4, 2012

We're Debt Free!

WE'RE DEBT FREE!
...Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show, where debt is dumb, cash is king, and the paid-off home mortgage has taken the place of the BMW as the status symbol of choice...

Our goal has been, for about a year-and-a-half, to pay off all of our debts by the end of 2012. We did it!  WE'RE DEBT FREE! Great job, Husband, and thanks for all of your help! When we got married, I had a loan from when I studied abroad in Germany, and I knew that Zak had some student loans, and a loan on Beefy. He told me, but I don't think I realized how many thousands of dollars of debt we had until we consciously calculated every loan. Those, along with the loan we took out to pay for one of us so we could both go to Switzerland added up to over $26,000.00. That is ridiculous.

Growing up, I tried to be frugal, but I never made or stuck to a budget. I'd put money in my savings account, but use it whenever I needed it, such as to pay tuition. I got my first car, which was as old as me, from my generous uncle for an extremely good price. When that died, I was already in college, and didn't have money saved up for a new car, so I took out a loan for $1,800. I paid it off in about five months, making larger than minimum payments. I was relieved to get the title in my name and to not worry about the payments, but not upset enough to avoid loans in the future.


Because Dad's job is associated with the university, my student fees were 50% off. That meant that instead of paying $2,500-$3,000 per semester like most in-state students, I paid between $1,200-$2,000 a semester. Yes, that is a fabulous cost for a university education, especially without the scholarship I lost early on when I failed calculus and practically failed biology. I worked full-time as as a life skills instructor/assistant manager before my mission, and didn't have to take out any more student loans, outside of my two-month stay in Germany. That loan started at $3,500, but by the time I paid it off in March, I know I'd spent so much more on interest. I paid $1,000 before my mission, and then $1,000 shortly after. When I met and married Zak, it was close to $2,000 or more owed.

He drove an older red Beefy on our first date, and before our second date, he had traded it in at a local dealership for our newer black Beefy. He got a discount for the trade-in, but was charged more than necessary for newer Beefy.

Reading Financial Peace Revisited at the cabin
Mom and Dad Porter gave us Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace Revisited book, which we read together last July at the cabin. We saved up our $1,000 emergency fund, and then started on our debt snowball. You're supposed to pay off the smallest debts first, and then pay off the biggest one at the end, compounding the money from your paid-off loans into the one you're currently destroying. We chose to pay off Beefy first, which was actually our largest loan, and then attack our Switzerland trip and other student loans. Beefy has driven much better since we paid  him off.

Dave also insists that you have to get mad. You have to get so mad that you never want to take out another loan. You don't need to build credit, because it only gets you more debt. Even a mortgage can be managed without credit by manual underwriting, where they make sure you have a steady job, have been paying rent on time, and can pay for it. We still have a few steps before saving for a house, including increasing our emergency fund to cover 3-6 months of expenses, but we're excited to make it to this point. Thank you, Dave and Sharon Ramsey.

We made our last payment to Fedloan today for $1,026.70, and I'm glad to kick them our of our home. I've looked forward to budgeting twice a month whenever Zak gets paid, just so I can see the progress. We still can't go overboard yet, but buying Christmas presents, work clothes for Zak, and a pair of jeans for me will be a lot of fun. Our loans totaled over $26,000 when we first counted, but I don't know how much we paid in interest for all of that. Not anymore; no more financial slavery. Now the interest will be working for us. Dave has been a regular in our home and on our trips with his free radio podcast, proclaiming the path to financial peace with a little bit of "Stupid!" and humor along the way.

We reached our goal to be done with loans by the end of the year, and we did it! WE'RE DEBT FREE!

...Live like no one else today, so you can live like no one else tomorrow...

Giving Thanks 2012

Thanksgiving week heaped up blessings for my family on both sides. Zak and I visited his family while celebrating the wedding, and then went back home where they joined us for the Thanksgiving meal. We found out one of my cousins had a baby, and another just got engaged. Add that to our sister's mission call to Ohio(!), and it's been quite eventful.

Since Zak and I have been married, we've always stayed at his parents' house, had Thanksgiving lunch with his immediate family, and then driven to my Grandma's house for Thanksgiving dinner with the extended family. Because we're so close to paying off our student loans and other debts, we decided that this year we'd just stay home and travel around Christmas time. His parents offered to drive up to us on Thanksgiving so we could still celebrate together.

Mom and I made food assignments, so I found recipes on Pinterest and gathered the ingredients on Monday before we left. Thanks thepioneerwoman.com. We got back late Tuesday night, and then I worked about ten hours on Wednesday, so I didn't have much time to bake the food beforehand. That morning, Niki helped make a salad, Zak set the alarm so he could get the turkey in the oven early enough, I prepared the potatoes and sweet potatoes for baking, and Mom organized the half of our meal which she brought, fit for royalty.

At Mom and Dad Porter's house, we get to write in permanent marker on the Thanksgiving tablecloth each year, listing blessings for which we are grateful. I love it! Zak and I pulled out a tablecloth I had already ruined with a bleach spot, and everyone wrote messages of gratitude.

Grandma's and Grandpa's babies.
My in-laws are so sweet, they left us with all of the leftovers, so I, rejoicing, didn't have to make dinner for a week. I'm grateful that we have a holiday all about eating food, spending time with family, and remembering blessings.

Delicious, Creamy Mashed Potatoes, thepioneerwoman.com



Soul Sweet 'Taters, thepioneerwoman.com



Thanksgiving Tablecloth, est. 2012

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Jake and Katie


 Zak and I were privileged to be invited to his cousin's wedding a couple days before Thanksgiving. We finagled our work schedules in order to be free and clear for the short visit with the Porters and wedding party. This was our first time meeting the bride, but I'd seen Zak's cousin a few times at the cabin, probably when I walloped everyone at Phase10. The stunning Katie smiled and shone. It was a joyous day at the Temple. 
Mount Timpanogos Temple

Waiting for the Bride and Groom
Zak and I



Jake and Katie





































































Jake and Katie have both done several theatrical 
productions, and you can tell by their party. The carnival reception included balloon animals, a strength-testing hammer (I'm a big boy!), sensationally sweet lemonade, and a photobooth complete with props. Jake and Katie have both done several theatrical productions, and you can tell by their party. The carnival reception included balloon animals, a strength-testing hammer (I'm a big boy!), sensationally sweet lemonade, and a photobooth complete with props. 

















Dad the Wrestler